hi my fiancee and i are trying are planning on trying to concieve a baby but we are both afraid of what the outcome will be, we are both young and we have really talked very deeply about this and what we want in our lives but still deep down inside i really want a baby and we have talked about the financials and the sacrifices that we need to make in order for us to have this baby. We really don;t know what to expect and we have decided for real that a baby is what we both want. what do you think?