Thanks for your great replies. I know my little brother and sister didn't feel any negative feeling from me because they were so young when they came here and I never ever showed them anything, but love. My problem was with my mom not them. They were so cute and adorable when they first got here. When my little brother was about 4 people would as him who he looks like more his mom or dad (just playing around) and he would say joyfully "Tiger Woods" it was so cute.