I have only one child and it's a boy. I didn't plan it that way, but I am truly blessed. THat being said, I don't know that I would have chosen one or the other, but I am so glad I had a boy. Oour relationship is so great and I think I would have brought to manyof my insecurities into a relatinship with a daughter and passed them on. With a son, I wsa able to jsut let go and let him develop on his own.