Yes, I have to agree with you all. I wanted to be a stay at home mom very much and we are working very hard to make it work. I am having to find work online, etc. just to make ends meet, but it is very well worth it. The hardest thing for me is insurance. With the relationship I'm in, my partner can't add me to her insurance, so that's a big concern. But other than that, we are doing what is necessary to make this work.