I agree that I love my kids and like them around. I want my kids included in most activities that I do especially family things, but sometimes I need to remember who I am besides a mom. Being a mom is a majority of who I am, but there are other aspects of me that are good and I need to remember those sometimes too. My hubby and I like to get out a little bit everyone few months (or at least twice a year) and remember who we married and why we wanted to start our lives together in the first place.