Well, as for me, I welcome advices especially if they are useful. Unwanted advices? Just pretend to listen but not really. What bugs me off most is when somebody tells me that my son is a brat after witnessing a single attitude problem and this happened before. I hate to hear these kinds of things, judging attitude and only to find out now, that they are wrong. Wish they'd attend more seminars on parenting and stop judging children.