So my husband and I have been together about four years , 8 months of which we have been married I am a full time student and have about another 11 months of study left we were hoping to wait to be married for a while and then have children , but we both new going into this relationship long before we were married that we wanted a family someday , well i got pregnant and i excepted it , we were having sex its part of that , its part of life and well he is my husband and this is our baby , it has been within the last month that this news has come to us , and at first he wanted an abortion but new i wouldn't do that , he has been very loving to me and taking care of "me" but as much as i appreciate it , i want it to include the baby to , its as if i feel as if he is going along with the whole thing i keep telling myself when i grow a good belly when he sees the first ultersound with the heartbeat he will fall in love , so for those of you ladies who tried with your husbands or who were wonderfully suprised , did your so ever come around , did they eventually "fall in love " with there children?