Sister - I can't imagine someone saying that! How rude!!! Our friends have 8 (yes, eight) children and say they will have more if it happens. And, they home school as well. I give them a ton of credit. I don't know that I could do it. I also agree about the not spoiling. Abram is an only child, howevder spoiled is not something that anyone would ever say about him. We are so incredibly blessed that he is a truly remarkable young man.