Just a reminder - not many people (husbands, parents, children, friends) are mind readers. As a new mom, if you are feeling frazzled, don't let the frustration build up in you and start wondering "why doesn't anyone help me?" Or "why doesn't anyone see that I need - blank". You'll be amazed at the reposnse if you just remember to ask for: An hour alone to just go window shopping, or to take a bath...or for a foot rub...or to read a book or to not make dinner or load the dishwasher. A lot of times, people are reluctant to suggest you get a little time away to yourself because they are afraid you'll be insulted. So, no guessing ladies....just simply ask for what you need. (And yes, that goes for the Dads in the group as well!)