That doesn't work for me, but is a great tip. When I ask I here "no I don't want to" from the kids and I just get an attitude from the hubby. He says he works all day and thinks it is "my job" well I told him I worked all day too and just because I wasn't out of the house it is not important. I do all the wife and mother stuff, plus I have a few online things I do also. Sorry I am just venting I guess.