See, I will have to differ here. My oldest son thrives off praise. I don't know if you have read the "Five Love Languages," but my son's love language is words of affimation. He is constantly praising others (Mommy, you are so pretty. Dad, you are a great dad, etc).

On the flip side, my youngest son likes the praise, but it's not as valuable to him. He appreciates the "atta boy" every now and then like you mentioned.

I guess what I'm saying is that every child is different. Some kids need the constant praise (when praise is deserved - I don't tell my son he drew a great picture if it's not great. I will say, you worked hard, I'm proud of you.)