my first child is also his we been though allot with his xgirl friends calling he house at to in the morning wanting him to meet them at hotels and just all kinds of crazy things. i am starting to wounder if he wants to be single again, or he likes getting me mad. i talked to him about it but it seems not to do anything at all. we been together for 5 almost 6 years been married for 2. do men get sick of there home life and try to make the wife feel bad by taking about thing like were they had sex with xgirl friends and how he took her to court and had sex with hr before this stuff if really starting to get to me. should i play his game and start talking about these things to or just act like i dont hear them. i really hate the fact that he dont wait till our 3 year is in the bed before he talks this way we have go into it so many time because of that. i try not to fuss in front of my lil girl and i try not to lose my cool. but it like he dont care about talking this way in front our lil girl. should i maybe try to get him to go to some tape of canceling with me... i guess this is really starting to stay on my mind i won't even have intercouse with him anymore couse i wounder if he think about x gril friends.