I had wanted to have two children close in age (within 2 years of each other), but our dd is now 3 years old so there goes that plan. Dh and I want another kid, but are worried about finances and how another one will affect our schooling (we are both in college right now). I get a little bummed out about us not having another one, but also am worried that if the kids are too far apart in age that they won't have a solid relationship.