They say that a couple has to stay together in one roof before they will be able to know each other well.

Do you think you have known your partner that well? Is it enough to make the relationship last for a long time? Have you understood each other well?

I have been married for 23 years and my husband and I did not live together before we got married. Even though we'd known each other for 6 years before we got married, there was so much we learned once we were under the same roof. I'm not saying it's a bad thing, just that is has been a great exploration!

well i was living with my hubby for 2 year before we got married.... yeah i love him but we started driffing aport now we been married 2 years all together been together 5 years. he dosen't want to spend any time with me and our lil girl. i also found out i be having another one and instead of being happy about it i dread it. couse my lil girl trys to get him to play or spend time with her he just sit infront the computer playing her no mind.. now i know this well be doing the samething ween i have this one. my lil girl love my best friends boy friend to death, the other day i called to talk too her she was out the house. he told me my lil girl called him daddy few time he sayed he didnt mind he knows how my hubby is. i told him to tell her he not her daddy but he told me again it didnt bother him. my lil girl get to close to any man that show her afaction this bother me. i though about living him but i just can bring my slef to do i know my kids would probebly better off with out him. but my mom and dad were split up and he died ween i was 4 and never really go to see him much. i guess i just have the hope he'll change.

everything thing change after we got married he went down hill