my lil sister just broke up with her 17 year boy friend she is 16. mom's all over about getting him back they went out for two years. she is now seeing and 23 year old that i went to school with i think he too old for her right now. and can he have charge put on him if she be comes pregnant i been around them and beilive they got to get having intercouse. i told her that i though he could get in troble for dating her we live in north carolina and i am not shore how the rules are on that. mom dosen't know there seeing each other eather i am warried that this guy my be taking avange of my sister couse she true and an very pretty young lady. he was the male ***** in school.

should i drop and hint to my mom or leave it be i tryed talk to my sister she says for me to stay out her life.

I don't know what the laws are in North Carolina but I agree with you that he is WAYYYYYY too old for her. It doesn't sound like a healthy relationship to me at all. Hopefully she can see this soon (which she probably will not at her age) but also at her age you have to allow her to make her own mistakes and hopefully things work out. You are the sister and not the parent so unfortunately I'm not sure there is much you can do.....

When I was your age, I left my home town and my little sister stayed there. I would talk to my sister occassionally and she finally told me that she was dating this older guy. Come to find out it was a guy I went to HS with. I told her that he was a complete a-hole back in HS and (if you've stayed in my little home town, people don't change). I gave her all the sisterly advice trying to be tactful and not try to be the parent. (In my sister's situation she was of legal age) In the end she learned her lesson and she came out of the situation better off. I just told her some things to be careful of and was careful of what I said. In your sister's situation she's too young. It's illegal in my state for them to be having sex. In a couple years it won't make a difference, so keep that in mind because she's thinking, well it's only a couple years so what's the big deal.

Hope everything works out for you

Suggest that you should inform your Mom about it and do something in order to keep your little sister out of trouble. Older men are wiser when it comes to having relationships with much younger ladies.
Anyway, I hope you have your problem solved soon.

If you have a good relationship with your sister, I think you should talk to her. Not "He's no good for you!" but trying to make sure she understands about birth control and all that. She could just want to be loved, and is taking anything - even if he is inappropriately old.

Ok I kind of understand where you are coming from, but also where your sis is coming from in dating this man, as I too have dated a man much... older than i. Its security in way,a safety net, and with me fear to stay.
First off for a man that much older to be with that young of a lady all he is looking for is fresh, and young, unfortunetly. And he may even be a good guy for all I know. Though they may be having sex, its their choice. All you can really do in my eyes is tell her with concern, not authority, why you feel the way you do, and that pregnancy and babies are responsibility, no sleep, work ,and not a bad thing but when your still young it changes EVERYTHING. Also if old enough have her baby sit, doing it all by herself even if your in the other room. Make her scared. And also bring it up that if its right for them to be together then she should tell your mother.
I am 25, and 10 weeks pregnant ... its a huge deal, and it should be. My boyfriend and I are workign on us, but it is estranged, and it takes work, patience, true love, friendship too.