hi my fiancee and i are trying are planning on trying to concieve a baby but we are both afraid of what the outcome will be, we are both young and we have really talked very deeply about this and what we want in our lives but still deep down inside i really want a baby and we have talked about the financials and the sacrifices that we need to make in order for us to have this baby. We really don;t know what to expect and we have decided for real that a baby is what we both want. what do you think?

Dear friend,
If you really want a baby, go for it!!! This is the most wonderful thing that can happen to a human being (it is the best thing that ever happened to me after my husband) I already have one and expecting the second one now. A bit challenging for me after 8 years and I am not that young anymore.
Worried about the finances, work, etc? Who doesnot. When it is time, God provides and you will learn and make the best of it for your children. That is life.