But there's less talk about the topic of sex during pregnancy, perhaps because of our culture's tendency to dissociate expectant mothers from sexuality. Like many parents-to-be, I have this question about the safety of sex, anyone know?

I think If you're having a normal pregnancy, sex is considered safe during all stages of the pregnancy.

So what's a "normal pregnancy"?

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It's one that's considered low-risk for complications such as miscarriage or pre-term labor.

just because sex is safe during pregnancy doesn't mean you'll necessarily want to have it! Many expectant mothers find that their desire for sex fluctuates during certain stages in the pregnancy. Also, many women find that sex becomes uncomfortable as their bodies get larger.

My friend was nearing the end of her pregnancy but still hadn't begun labor. Believe it or not her doctor told her that having sex might get the contractions going. I guess if you have had a normal pregnancy without complications then sex would be safe right up to the last week.

Sex will help induce labor (from experience) so make sure the doctor okay's you having sex BEFORE you give it a try. Sex during pregnancy can be freeing for some women (hey, there's no chance of getting pregnant after all) and intimidating for some men. Talk with your spouse or partner. Be willing to try new positions (that belly can start to get in the way). And don't do it if it feels uncomfortable.